I need help, its about my so called "good friend"? please help.. i could really use some advice?

hes not meaning to hurt you, i know this cuz im a guy. we dont like to talk about that stuff, although he does seem a bit hipocritical because of him wanting help.i also have a sense that you havnt forgiven him about the past. you need to let that go in order to have a truly good freindship.